Wedding Venue FAQs
below are our most frequently asked questions
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If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Stonegate Manor Events is located between two quaint downtowns in SW Michigan, along Lake Michigan’s beautiful Sunset Coast. St. Joseph is the closest beach community (10 minutes away) that offers many dining choices, unique shops and several beaches to visit. Light house lovers need to check out Tiscornia Beach. Benton Harbor’s art district is 10 minutes away in the opposite direction and is rich with dining choices, unique picture opportunities and really cool shopping! Our venue is in the heart of Michigan wine country, boasting dozens of microbreweries and wineries. Southwest Michigan’s coastline has become one of the Midwest’s most popular destination wedding locations. There are not only several hotels less than 15 minutes away, but there are even more Airbnb options! Our hidden gem of a venue is less than 7 minutes away from the closest Lake Michigan beach, and 90 minutes from Chicago – talk about convenience and beauty! Make sure to book early, especially if you have a specific date in mind!
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If you have any questions about our location or want to schedule a tour, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
The Riverside Dining Room can seat 192 chairs. The estate tent can also fit 22 tables. Our Indoor/Outdoor option allows for up to 250 guests.
If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Absolutely! To schedule a visit, please email info@stonegatemanorevents.com or fill out a contact form – we’d love to show you around!
There are specific hours of Elopement/Micro- and Petite weddings. Otherwise, the property is rented on Fridays from 12 noon until 11pm. Saturdays from 12 noon to 12am. Sundays from 12 noon to 10pm. We often times will have tours and/or rehearsals before noon on the day of your event.
All personal decorations must be removed at the end of your event and the property is to be vacated. Additional set-up/tear-down time can often be accommodated at an additional charge of $300/hour.
With ceremonies our Wedding Cottage will be open from 8am to 8pm.
The 1847 Manor house can be rented out from 12pm to 8pm.
If you have other questions about our hours and access, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
While there are many areas on the property you may exchange your vows, we have two very special sites: The classic Pergola on the Lawn and the wooded Fairy Garden. A mossy, winding brick path leads you to the beautiful Pergola. The Fairy Garden is nestled in the woods and is bordered by dozens of hostas and ferns. If the weather doesn’t cooperate, we will work with you to find the perfect backup solution.
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If you have other questions about our ceremony sites, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
We celebrate all love – the LGBTQ community is no exception! The wedding professionals on our Vendor List have been carefully vetted and share our mindset.
If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
We do have two preferred caterers – CK Catering and Classic Catering. However, any licensed caterer may be used with prior approval of the venue. It is essential they know what our resources are and we know they will treat our property with respect. Self-catering is allowed in the Manor House but not in the Riverside Room. The cost of the catering service is not included in your rental contract.
If you have other questions about catering or vendors, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Stonegate Manor Events has a Liquor License and therefore a full-service bar. After you tour the estate we can provide you with our customizable beverage packages; designed for all tastes and budgets! Full service packages range from $19 to $48 per person!
We maintain a list of vendors who, in our experience, provide excellent product and service. We are happy to provide you with that list after you tour the estate. However, our list is not exhaustive and there are many other excellent vendors in the area from whom you may choose. All vendors must have a vendor agreement on file prior to working at Stonegate Manor Events.
If you have other questions about vendors, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Reception tables and chairs are included in your package! We work with you to design a floor plan unique to your event. Our staff will set up the tables and chairs before your event begins. Many caterers include linens in their wedding packages. If they do not, please ask us for linen prices!
Want to learn more about our inclusions or come to take a tour? Fill out our contact form here or call (269) 930-0617.
We have two options for that! The use of the air-conditioned and renovated Wedding Cottage (the original carriage house on the estate) is included with the ceremony. An additional space, the Manor House, is available for “Day Of” rental. The Manor house has 3 dressing rooms and 1½ baths. Who gets ready where is entirely up to you!
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If you have any questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
If you are getting married on-site, you may have a one-hour rehearsal either on Thursday or the morning before your event. If other arrangements need to be made our staff will work with you.
If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Stonegate Manor Events is located on 12 wooded acres with a koi pond and all sorts of temptations exist for children. We love kids and enjoy seeing them be part of the festivities in a safe manner. We require all children less than 16 years of age be closely supervised by an adult at all times. Diaper changing areas are available in both the male and female restrooms.
If you have other questions about our kids’ policy, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Yes! We welcome pets of all varieties on the property so long as they keep their humans on a leash! And, their human ensures any “accidents” will be cleaned up. Out of respect for future guests with allergies, we do not allow pets inside any of the buildings.
If you have other questions about our pet policy, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
The Stonegate Boutique is a large eclectic collection of items…signs, vases, votives, chalkboards, milk glass items, doilies, mirrors, Victorian birdcages, old crates, and much more. These are all free for you to borrow and make for amazing photography.
If you have questions about items in the Stonegate Boutique, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
We do not allow items to be glued, nailed, tacked, or stapled inside our facility. We have installed heavy-duty decorative hooks along the walls to accommodate anything which you’d like to hang on the walls. We can also hang decor from the exposed rafters inside the Riverside Reception Room. All decorations must be entirely removed at the end of your event. We do not allow the throwing of rice, glitter, artificial flower petals, etc. outside. Candles must be entirely enclosed – votives are fine. No fireworks or sky lanterns are allowed on the property (we’re surrounded by mature woods). Balloons must be tethered, both inside and outside. Sparklers are allowed for a “send-off” period on our paved areas. Children must be assisted by an adult if using sparklers.
If you have other questions about decor inside of the Riverside Room, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Yes! The Riverside Reception Room and two ceremony sites are fully handicap accessible, including the bathrooms. We have conveniently located handicap parking. The Manor House was built in the 1800s and, unfortunately, not entirely handicap-accessible.
If you have other questions about our handicap accessibility, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Included in all packages is access to the grounds for a one-hour engagement photoshoot. Scheduling of this will be done with our venue manager.
If you have questions about our engagement photography session included in your package, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Yes. We have a designated caterer’s prep area with a private side entrance, refrigerator and sink.
If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
We are happy to report that Stonegate Manor Events is regularly (and professionally) sprayed for mosquitoes so your guests will be comfortable enjoying all your outdoor activities!
If you have other questions or want to see the property in person, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
Yes, we do require a $1,000,000 event and host liquor liability insurance prior to your wedding. The price is usually less than $175 and provides valuable protection and peace of mind. We have sources we can refer you to.
If you have other questions about wedding insurance, feel free to fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
To book your event is simple. First let us know what package and add-ons you would like. Then include the renters names, address, phone numbers and email information – we will email the Rental Agreement. The Rental Agreement can either be electronically signed or you can mail the signed Rental Agreement with your first payment either via check or credit card. Credit card payments are subject to a 4% processing fee. The first payment is a 50% non-refundable deposit and the balance is due 120 days before your event. Once both the signed Rental Agreement and payment are received your celebration is officially on the calendar!
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packages from 2-250 guests available
Whether it’s just the two of you or up to 200 guests, our Estate can accommodate your wedding ceremony and reception. Click on the buttons below to open our packages and get detailed information including pricing. If you have other questions regarding packages, head over to our FAQ, fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
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FRIDAY WEDDINGS
2024 Friday Rental Fee:
Reception $4400
Ceremony $600
Manor House (optional) $400
2025 Prime Friday Rental Fee:
May/June & Sept./Oct.
Reception + Ceremony $5300
Manor House (optional) $400
2025 Friday Rental Fee:
July/August & Nov./Dec.
Reception + Ceremony $5000
Manor House (optional) $400
Other pricing details:
Access to the 1847 Manor House from 12pm to 8pm furnished with Victorian accents for pictures & getting ready.
Add Thursday from 4:00 pm to 9:00 pm to your Friday rental for a $1,000.00 rental fee.
Decorate, rehearse, & bring your rehearsal dinner onsite!
Rental Fee Includes:
- Access from 12:00 pm to 11:00 pm of the temperature controlled Riverside Dining Room!
- Access to outside grounds and gardens!
- Virtual floor planning: we take your vision and create a unique floor plan for your event!
- Month before pre-event planning meeting!
- 5′ round tables, 6′ & 8′ long tables that the venue sets-up & breaks down!
- Reception room espresso colored padded chairs!
- Dimmable Chandeliers!
- Waterfall string lights!
- Vintage gift & cards table!
- Antique guest book table!
- Vintage dessert table!
- Cocktail tables!
- Caterer prep kitchen with private entrance and refrigerator!
- Large, elegant restrooms with handicap access!
- Handcrafted inside & outside bars!
- Dance floor for under the Estate Tent!
- String lights & a 5′ Chandelier with greenery under the Estate Tent!
- Lawn games such as Corn Hole & Giant Jenga!
- A fire pit with wooden benches and chairs!
- 100’s of free decor items found in our Stonegate Boutique!
- Vintage settee “lounge” furniture!
- Staff on-site for maintenance, light janitorial duties & emergencies!
- Security on-site!
- Lighted parking lot with plenty of handicapped parking!
- One hour engagement session – bring your photographer!
Ceremony includes:
- 8:00 am to 8:00 pm access to the Wedding Cottage!
- Unity table!
- One-hour complimentary rehearsal!
- white padded chairs that we set-up and breakdown!
- Your choice of the outdoor Pergola area or Fairy Garden with arch!
Interested in our Friday wedding package & ready to tour? Fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
SATURDAY WEDDINGS
2024 Saturday Rental Fee:
$4400 Reception
$600 Ceremony
$4oo Manor House (optional)
2025 Prime Saturday Rental Fee:
May/June & Sept./Oct.
Reception + Ceremony $6300
Manor House (optional) $400
2025 Saturday Rental Fee:
July/August & Nov./Dec.
Reception + Ceremony $6000
Manor House (optional) $400
Other pricing details:
Access to the 1847 Manor House from 12pm to 8pm furnished with Victorian accents for pictures & getting ready.
Rental Fee Includes:
- Access from 12:00 pm to 12:00 am of the temperature controlled Riverside Dining Room!
- Access to outside grounds and gardens!
- Virtual floor planning: we take your vision and create a unique floor plan for your event!
- Month before pre-event planning meeting!
- 5′ round tables, 6′ & 8′ long tables that the venue sets-up & breaks down!
- Reception room espresso colored padded chairs!
- Dimmable Chandeliers!
- Waterfall string lights!
- Vintage gift & cards table!
- Antique guest book table!
- Vintage dessert table!
- Cocktail tables!
- Caterer prep kitchen with private entrance and refrigerator!
- Large, elegant restrooms with handicap access!
- Handcrafted inside & outside bars!
- Dance floor for under the Estate Tent!
- String lights & a 5′ Chandelier with greenery under the Estate Tent!
- Lawn games such as Corn Hole & Giant Jenga!
- A fire pit with wooden benches and chairs!
- 100’s of free decor items found in our Stonegate Boutique!
- Vintage settee “lounge” furniture!
- Staff on-site for maintenance, light janitorial duties & emergencies!
- Security on-site!
- Lighted parking lot with plenty of handicapped parking!
- One hour engagement session – bring your photographer!
Ceremony includes:
- 8:00 am to 8:00 pm access to the Wedding Cottage!
- Unity table!
- One-hour complimentary rehearsal!
- white padded chairs that we set-up and breakdown!
- Your choice of the outdoor Pergola area or Fairy Garden with arch!
Interested in our Saturday wedding package & ready to tour? Fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
PETITE WEDDING & ELOPEMENT PACKAGES
The Petite Wedding Package accommodates up to 50 guests and the Elopement package accommodates up to 16. Read below to see the two packages.
PETITE WEDDING PACKAGE
If you are looking for something elegant and intimate our Petite Wedding package is perfect for you! You pick a 5-hr period to fit your vision. Whether it’s noon to 5 pm…creating the feel of an elegant “afternoon tea”, or starting later into the evening…creating an entirely different ambience. The time period is up to you!
Up to 2 additional hours are available at $350/hour. Up to 10 additional guests are okay at $50 per guest.
The couple and children under 10 years of age are not included in the guest count!
Pricing for up to 50 guests *includes tax
Friday: $5,500
Sunday – Wednesday: $5,000
- 50 guests!
- 5-hour rental of Manor House, Riverside Dining Room, Wedding Cottage, Estate Tent and Estate Grounds!
- 1-hour rehearsal time (either the day before or add this to your wedding day)!
- 1-hour to set-up your personal decor!
- Tables & Chairs are already set-up before you arrive by the venue!
- Linens and Centerpieces are included too!
- Choice of 2 outdoor ceremony sites (chairs will be set-up before you arrive)!
- Officiant!
- Bouquet(s) or Boutonniere(s) for couple!
- Speakers for Ceremony & Reception music!
- Beautiful Two-tiered Wedding Cake!
- Charcuterie Appetizers/Grazing Table + Nonalcoholic Beverages!
- Alcoholic Beverages available at an additional cost!
- Selfie Frame & Ring Light + Lawn Games!
- Wedding must end by 10pm!
- Not available on Saturdays!
Ready to discuss our Petite Wedding Package & schedule a tour? Fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
ELOPEMENT/MICRO-WEDDING PACKAGE
Are you looking for something a bit more intimate and low-key? Our Elopement package is an easy, low-stress way to marry the person of your dreams without sacrificing any of those traditions which help create beautiful memories. Celebrate with your closest family and friends in elegant style. We book elopements only 4 months in advance!
Weekdays & Sundays only *includes tax
Mon – Wed (0 – 8 guests) $1,200; (9 – 16 guests) $1,400
Sundays (0 – 8 guests) $1,600; (9 – 16 guests) $1,800
- 16 guests (the couple & children under 10 years of age are not included in the guest count)!
- 3-hour rental of Manor House and Estate grounds (between 10am and 9pm)!
- Choice of 2 outdoor ceremony sites (chairs already set-up before you arrive)!
- Officiant!
- Bouquet(s) or Boutonniere(s) for couple!
- Bluetooth Speaker for the Processional!
- Small Wedding Cake!
Ready to discuss our elopement package & schedule a tour? Fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
3-DAY ALL WEEKEND PACKAGE
What a great way to provide a central hub while leisurely preparing for all your wedding festivities. Up to 3 hosted events…rehearsal dinner, wedding, post-wedding brunch, etc…all in one central location. Host them all inside the Riverside Room or the Wedding Tent or mix it up. No need to try to make group reservations elsewhere! While up to 15 people may stay in the Manor House overnight, it really is most comfortable for 6 couples.
2025 Weekend Overnight Package $16,950
3-day/2 night use of estate including use of Manor house for lodging (up to 15 people)!
Great for rehearsal dinner, Sunday brunch, and all your wedding festivities!
Access to the entire Estate from 9am Friday to 9pm Sunday!
2025 Friday & Saturday Overnight Package $12,200
2-day/1 night use of the estate including use of Manor house for lodging (up to 15 people)!
Great for rehearsal dinner, decorating, and all your wedding festivities!
Access to the entire Estate from 12pm Friday to 11pm Saturday!
The Ceremony
- Use of the elegantly furnished and air-conditioned Wedding Cottage!
- Choice of 2 ceremony locations – the wooded Fairy Garden and the classic Pergola on the lawn Set-up and take-down of white Ceremony chairs!
- Availability of grounds for 1-hour engagement photoshoot!
- Rehearsal on-site!
Weekend Packages Include:
- Pre-wedding planning one month before!
- Virtual floor plan meeting: we’ll create your floor plan for your unique event!
- We set up Tables and espresso colored padded chairs for your reception!
- Waterfall string lights & large elegant dimmable chandeliers!
- 20′ x 20′ dance floor under Estate Tent (if desired)!
- Two ornate antique buffet tables for desserts, gifts & cards!
- One vintage table for guest book, family pictures or other decor!
- Cocktail tables!
- String lights throughout the venue!
- Free use of 100’s of decor items stored in our Stonegate Boutique!
- Caterer prep room with private entrance and refridgerator!
- Large, elegant restrooms with handicap access!
- Lighted Parking lot with plenty of handicapped parking!
- Light Janitorial services!
- Staff on-sight for maintenance & emergencies on your wedding day!
Want to find out more or schedule a tour? Fill out our contact form or call (630) 550-8332.
SUNDAY WEDDINGS
2024 Sunday Rental Fee:
Reception $3400.00
Ceremony $600
Manor House (optional) $400
2025 Sunday Rental Fee:
Reception + Ceremony $4300
Manor House (optional) $400
Other pricing details
Access to the 1847 Manor House from 12pm to 8pm furnished with Victorian accents for pictures & getting ready.
Rental Fee includes:
- 10 hour access from 12:00 pm to 10:00 pm of the temperature controlled Riverside Dining Room!
- Access to outside grounds and gardens!
- Virtual floor planning: we take your vision and create a unique floor plan for your event!
- Month before pre-event planning meeting!
- Dimmable Chandeliers!
- Waterfall string lights!
- Vintage gift & cards table!
- Antique guest book table!
- Vintage dessert table!
- 7 cocktail tables!
- Caterer prep kitchen with private entrance and refrigerator!
- Large, elegant restrooms with handicap access!
- Handcrafted inside & outside bars!
- Dance floor for under the Estate Tent!
- String lights & a 5′ Chandelier with greenery under the Estate Tent!
- Lawn games such as Corn Hole & Giant Jenga!
- A fire pit with wooden benches and chairs!
- 100’s of free decor items found in our Stonegate Boutique!
- Vintage settee “lounge” furniture!
- Staff on-site for maintenance, light janitorial duties & emergencies!
- Security on-site!
- Lighted parking lot with plenty of handicapped parking!
Ceremony includes:
- 8:00 am to 8:00 pm access to the Wedding Cottage!
- Unity table!
- One-hour complimentary rehearsal!
- white padded chairs that we set-up and breakdown!
- Your choice of the outdoor Pergola area or Fairy Garden with arch!